To increase your chances of meeting like-minded people, join a club, take a class, or volunteer with an LGBTQ+ activist or volunteer group.
Request that some close friends match you up with one of their pals, and hope that you click. The first thing to do is go to your favorite hangout and keep an eye out for a guy who checks all the conditions. As adults, we basically have few alternatives when it comes to finding love, especially for gay men.